DEAR BELLA:
So my best friend and I have known each other since middle school, really since elementary school if you count the 5th grade. But recently, we had a falling out over something seriously so petty. But what’s really funny is that I got a text from her last night, saying she saw my boyfriend kissing another girl. And honestly I’m not sure how to feel about it. —–signed, DISTANT FRIEND
DEAR DISTANT:
Believe her.
DEAR BELLA:
Last summer, I started having sex with my ex. But now, I feel like it’s becoming a bit too much. But the truth is, I can’t stop. Plus, it’s even better than I remembered. Meanwhile, it’s like in the back of my mind I know it isn’t right but I can’t help but see us together. I feel stuck.—–signed, EX LOVER
DEAR EX:
Don’t get caught up without one.
DEAR BELLA:
I’m 26 without a clue. And no idea what I want to do with my life. Or even who I want to be. I thought for a second it might’ve been technology or either graphic designing but I changed my mind. And mentally I haven’t been right. And just last fall, I decided to drop out of school but now I feel dumb. Was I wrong?—–signed, TIME IS RUNNING OUT
DEAR TIME:
Surrender and witness how change will take care of itself.
DEAR BELLA:
I need your advice. Female, 28 years old in a somewhat, seemingly healthy relationship going on for about 3 or 4 years now. But lately I’ve been feeling kinda “off”….not to mention being asked non-stop if I could try something “new” in the bedroom. And to make a long story short, we got into a heated argument this morning all because I mentioned we should stop having sex. Am I being selfish?—–signed, POTENTIAL EX
DEAR POTENTIAL: Yes.
Until next time.
“I’ll try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure.”— Mae West
