DEAR BELLA:
So my best friend and I have known each other since middle school, really since elementary school if you count the 5th grade.
But recently, we had a falling out over something seriously so petty.
But what’s really funny is that I got a text from her last night, saying she saw my boyfriend kissing another girl.
And honestly, I’m not sure how to feel about it. —- signed, DISTANT FRIEND
DEAR DISTANT:
Believe her.
DEAR BELLA:
Last summer, I started having sex with my ex but now I feel like it’s becoming a bit too much.
But the truth is, I can’t stop, plus it’s even better than I remembered.
Meanwhile, it’s like in the back of my mind I know it isn’t right but I can’t help but see us together.
I don’t know, I feel stuck. —- signed, EX LOVER
DEAR EX:
Don’t get caught up without one.
DEAR BELLA:
I’m 26 without a clue.
And no idea what I want to do with my life.
I thought for a second it might’ve been in technology or maybe even graphic designing but I changed my mind.
And just last fall, I decided to drop out of school but now I feel dumb.
Was I wrong? — signed, TIME IS RUNNING OUT
DEAR TIME:Â
Surrender and witness how life will take care of itself.
DEAR BELLA:
I need your advice.
I’m a female, 28 in a semi-healthy relationship going on for about 3 to 4 years now.
But lately I’ve been feeling kinda “off”…
Being asked non-stop if I could try something new in the bedroom.
And to make a long story short, we got into a heated argument this morning. And all because I mentioned we should stop having sex.
Am I being selfish? — signed, POTENTIAL EX
DEAR POTENTIAL: Yes.
Until next time.
“I’ll try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure.” — Mae West
